Happy Beatles Month! One of my FAVORITE Beatles songs: "Norwegian Wood (This Bird Has Flown)" I once had a girl, or should I say, she once had me She showed me her room, isn't it good, Norwegian wood? She asked me to stay and she told me to sit anywhere So I looked around and I noticed there wasn't a chair I sat on the rug, biding my time, drinking her wine We talked until two and then she said, "It's time for bed" She told me she worked in the morning and started to laugh I told her I didn't and crawled off to sleep in the bath And when I awoke I was alone, this bird had flown So I lit a fire, isn't it good, Norwegian wood? *This piece originally appeared in the Feb. issue of Somerset Magazine.
It happened every single year: on Valentine’s Day, the cheerleaders in my high school would weave in and out of the classrooms, passing out roses of different colors to all the lucky guys and gals who had boyfriends, girlfriends, and best friends who wanted to express their love via flowers with paper tags attached to the stems. I did not like Valentine’s/Flower Distribution Day. I blame this on a boy who decided, starting in fourth grade, that I would not go home with just a single red rose; I would go home with 12. That’s right: an entire bouquet. What’s worse is that every year when it came time for the cheerleaders to begin handing out roses in my homeroom, they saved my 12 roses for last. This meant that during the first year or two of this charade, at least 12 students thought for sure that they still had a chance of receiving a rose. Because, well, not receiving a rose was pretty much the floral equivalent of getting picked last for a team in gym class and the team captain saying, “Are you one-hundred percent positive I can’t pick anyone else?” When one of the cheerleaders announced, “And the rest of these roses go to . . . Kayla Pongrac!,” I wanted nothing more than to hide under my desk and wait until the roses withered and all of my classmates boarded their school buses home so that I could save myself the embarrassment of having to walk up to the front of the classroom and accept my bouquet. What came next was the walk of shame back to my desk; this walk often involved making eye contact with at least one student who looked at me as if I had checked out all the Harry Potter books in the library for an entire lifetime. I tried not to draw even more attention to myself upon sitting back down at my desk and carefully reading all the tags. In addition to a “To” and “From” line on the front of each tag, there was space on the back for “additional comments” such as: “I love you so much, Kayla!” or “Will you go out with me, Kayla?” or “Circle one: Yes or No” or “You are so special to me, Kayla,” or “Happy Valentine’s Day to my favorite person in the whole entire school and universe!” I know what you’re thinking: this little boy was bound to make a great husband someday. But here’s what I was thinking: I will never go out with you, so you should save your money and leave me alone. Instead, I said nothing. I put my head down on my desk until it was time to board bus number four, which was a real treat because everyone on the bus wanted to know who my flowers were from and what was written on their tags. Valentine’s/Flower Distribution Day was essentially slang for Tell Me Right Now Who Loves You Day. Not only did I have to deal with my persistent busmates, but also my mom. Every day at 3:30 p.m., my mom stood waiting for me and my sister at the end of our driveway. Valentine’s Day was especially exciting for her because it meant that she got to see who else had found her daughters to be quite charming. I’m not bragging when I say that I walked off that bus every year with more flowers in hand than Chelsey. Although my sister and I were competitive, this was always the one time when I had wished that Chelsey could outnumber me—that she could experience what it was like to be loved by a certain classmate who, in second grade, slung an entire garbage bag full of stuffed animals over his shoulder and dumped them at my feet right before we recited the Pledge of Allegiance. Chelsey usually received yellow roses from her two best friends on Valentine’s/Flower Distribution/Tell Me Right Now Who Loves You Day. These roses were accompanied by tags that read, “BFF!” or “BFFAEAE,” the latter meaning “Best friends forever and ever and ever,” but could have also possibly meant “Buffalos fling fudge as entertainment, as education.” When my mother saw me walking toward her with my bouquet of red roses, she would gasp and put her hands over her mouth, always giving me the opportunity to ask, “Makes you want to puke, too, huh?” But my mom was absolutely thrilled with all these roses. As soon as we walked through our front door, she would fill a vase with water and place all of them inside. Then came her favorite question: “Can I read the tags?” I would shrug my shoulders, slop some homemade food onto my dinner plate and go sit in front of the TV. All I wanted was for the day to be over so everyone could return to normalcy after having endured a full day’s worth of idiocy. Also, as far as I was concerned, the only person I would even consider having as my Valentine was Judge Judy, who was telling people how it was as I cut my tenderized steak with a fork. Unfortunately, I couldn’t eat my dinner in peace—nor could I hear the defendants stutter their way through their testimonies—before my mom was in the living room, asking me if I had thanked my “not-so-secret admirer” for the beautiful flowers. My answer was no—that he was not in the same classroom as I when they were delivered, and if he were, I would have walked up to his desk and demanded that he have the roses returned to the bush from which they were picked. “Well then you should call him right now, Kayla,” my mom would say. “And say what?” “Just thank him for the beautiful roses and wish him a happy Valentine’s Day. I’m sure he borrowed a lot of money from his parents to buy them for you.” “Then how about you just call his parents and tell them to never give him money ever again?” And so my mom would locate our phonebook, find his parents’ names and use her pointer finger to trace the dotted line that led to their phone number. Then she would stand over my shoulder and recite those seven digits as if she were reciting poetry, making that the only time in my life when I wished that poetry did not exist. There I stood, with one end of the receiver next to my ear and the other next to my mouth. I wasn’t sure which could possibly be worse: me listening to him talk or me trying to talk as he listened, hoping that I would say, “Yes! I’ll be your girlfriend! Happy Valentine’s Day!” Some years there would be an answer and I would just stand there in silence, hoping that soon enough I would hear that heavenly click and—no pun intended—be let off the hook (all I would simply have to do was lie and tell my mom that there was no answer). Other years there really was no answer at all, and I imagined the boy who was in love with me on a dinner date with his parents, being the dreadful third wheel, watching them lean over the table and smile at each other while he twisted spaghetti noodles around on his fork, wondering how long it would take until I decided to love him back. This is how I would have reacted if Vampire Weekend’s “Modern Vampires of the City” did not win “Best Alternative Music Album” at this year’s Grammy Awards.
First, I would have pulled every piece of clothing off every hanger in my closet. Upon organizing this huge lump of clothes into one massive pile, I would’ve attempted to try to roll it up into a ball and kick it down the stairs before using it to create a bright and stinky bonfire in my front yard. This would have been my way of stating that if the Grammys couldn’t acknowledge good music, I was going to spend the rest of my life not acknowledging clothing. While my pile of clothes was burning, I would’ve gone back into my house to retrieve a bag of marshmallows. Upon roasting and shoving as many marshmallows as I could into my mouth, I would have been using my other hand to Google meaningful charities, preferably “Donate to the Awesome Band Known as Vampire Weekend So They Can Have a Fake Grammy Manufactured to Replace the Real One That They Should Have Won But Didn’t for Absolutely No Explanatory Reason Available to Mankind.” Then I would have donated my entire life savings to that charity via PayPal. Upon transferring those funds, I would have purchased 50,000 copies of “Modern Vampires of the City” with the help of my credit card. I would have distributed those copies for free during a road trip across Pennsylvania, Ohio, West Virginia and Maryland in an effort to enlighten and enrich the lives of people whose ears had not yet been blessed by Vampire Weekend’s latest gem of an album. When I would have ran out of gas somewhere near a creepy motel, I would have called “Rolling Stone” magazine, shared with them my story and told them that they were right to have named “Modern Vampires of the City” the best album of 2013, and now will somebody please take pity on me because the only thing left to eat in my car is a gum wrapper and quite possibly my Twitter account. |
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